What Is Your Defect? This is Mine.


The French philosopher Alain de Botton believes that we should never put our best foot forward when we first start dating someone.  This is the convention, yes, but what it does is set up both parties for unrealistic expectations and disappointments.  He suggests that first dates begin with the question: “How are you crazy?”

Basically, let’s cut ahead.  What is it that you think I will find strange?  What are your quirks?  What is it you think I won’t be able to live with because no one else could?

While it is practical advice, instead of asking others, I thought to ask myself.

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everyday kaye


What started Everyday Kaye?
Actually it was one of those times when you realise you want to do something consecutively or by routine. Project 365, right? That’s when you take one photo a day for every day for one year. That’s basically what I wanted to do first. I knew I wanted to do it because I wanted to get back into photography, but then I also wanted to do it because I wanted to bring back routine and have something that I had to do every day. [click to continue…]

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